Allison and I took our wedding vows 14 years ago today. For years, we did what happily married, childless couples do. We spent time with friends, went to dinner and to shows, moved from place to place and generally mapped out what the rest of our lives would look like. When the girls were born and we realized that Livy had another plan for us, we were left meandering into uncharted territory. Quite often under these circumstances, couples stand at a crossroad; do they continue on together or go their separate ways. The harsh reality is that a very high percentage of marriages crumble under the weight of such a life changing event.
The book Somewhere in Heaven tells the amazing story of Christopher and Dana Reeve. Christopher Reeve passed away on October 10, 2004 and his wife Dana passed away only 17 months later on March 6, 2006. Many people remember Chris Reeve as Superman from the big screen. However, not enough people know the story of the super person he was and the lives he affected after his horse riding accident on May 25, 1995 that left him paralyzed from the neck down. Perhaps overshadowed in the media by all that Chris did was his relationship with Dana. She was his rock and his hero. She was always there to raise his spirits, to encourage him and to help him believe that he had a purpose. They inspired each other and the world by the hurdles they overcame, the lives they changed and the committed marriage they shared.